The
Station
By Robert
J. Hastings
Tucked
away in our subconscious is an idyllic vision.
We see
ourselves on a long trip that spans the continent.
We are
traveling by train. Out the windows we drink in
the
passing scene of cars on nearby highways, of children
waving
at a crossing, of cattle grazing on a distant hillside,
of smoke
pouring from a power plant, of row upon row
of corn
and wheat, of flatlands and valleys, of mountains
and
rolling hillsides, of city skylines and village halls.
But uppermost
in our minds is the final destination.
Bands
will be playing and flags waving. Once we get there,
our
dreams will come true, and the pieces of our lives will
fit
together like a jigsaw puzzle. How restlessly we pace
the
aisles-waiting, waiting, and waiting, for the station.
"When
we reach the station, that will be it!" we cry.
"When
I'm 18."
"When
I buy a new 450SL Mercedes-Benz!"
"When
I put the last kid through college."
"When
I have paid off the mortgage!"
"When
I get a promotion."
"When
I reach the age of retirement,
I shall
live happily ever after!"
Sooner
or later, we must realize there is no station,
no
one place to arrive at once and for all.
The
true joy of life is the trip.
The
station is only a dream.
It constantly
outdistances us.
It isn't
the burdens of today that drive men mad.
It is
the regrets over yesterday and fear of tomorrow.
Regret
and fear are twin thieves who rob us of today.
So stop
pacing the aisles and counting the miles.
Instead,
climb more mountains, eat more ice cream,
go barefoot
more often, swim more rivers, watch more
sunsets,
laugh more, and cry less. Life must be lived
as we
go along. The station will come soon enough.